However, filling the void may backfire on him, as the relationship may escalate from occasional lunches during work hours or early dinners disguised as “working late”, to the more intimate texting and instant messages all night long.This is hook line and sinker for the woman, as she automatically thinks, “oh, he wants to talk to me so badly that he’s risking getting caught!Regardless of the reasons, some marriages will be salvageable and some might come to an end."Not every marriage touched by infidelity can or should be saved.Sometimes too much damage has been done, or both partners aren't committed.Therefore, it IS our shared responsibility at this time to help to awaken others by continuously speaking the Truth, even if we feel burdened by this task, and even if it makes ALL those involved feel uncomfortable.Mark Passio Every truth passes through three stages before it is recognized.In the first it is ridiculed, in the second it is opposed, in the third it is regarded as self evident.
Mahatma Gandhi WE are the vehicles by which Truth operates in the world.
"Your marriage does not necessarily have to end because you had an affair.
Even though admitting an affair to your spouse will cause much heartache and anger, your marriage can survive.
Painful as it is, it's important to acknowledge when this is the case." From Mayo Clinic.com, "Never, ever encourage your partner to 'get over it.' Instead, be available to hear your partner’s pain and take it in. Instead, open conversations yourself that let your partner know that you’re continuing to think about the affair and that you won’t leave her alone to carry the pain.
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